March 9, 2023

Who Do We Want to Be As a Parish?

This is an exciting time to be at Epiphany! Midweek has solidified itself as a fixture in our parish life. We have a full staff and growing volunteers. We are coming together and exploring what it is to be a community in the post-lockdown era. It’s a perfect time to think about who we are as a parish and who we want to be. The use of our building and how it supports our vision is an important part of that conversation.

Last fall, the Property Committee presented an assessment of the current state of our property and the work that would be needed to maintain it over the next ten years. Understandably, there was a bit of sticker shock. Fortunately, Property interrogated the assessment’s assumptions and identified our slate roof would benefit from enhanced annual maintenance, but does not need to be replaced. This reduces our capital need from $6M to about $3.5M, which is good news for us all.

Regardless, we will need a capital campaign to fund the building repairs and build the church’s endowment to support our mission as a church. “What is the mission of our church?” Who do we want to be as a parish? Or to put it another way, what is our vision for the future of our church? These are very important questions that we need to decide on.

It would be straightforward for our vestry to decide on a vision for the future , but the result wouldn’t reflect our community as a whole. To truly be a vision that drives our programming and activities as a church, it needs to come from all of us. Our vestry engaged in a workshop led by Corey Hollenbeck where, instead of focusing on what we thought the vision should be, we focused on how to best gather input from the parish as a whole.

Soon your wardens and vestry will be reaching out to targeted groups from across the parish to get a feel for the differing views and find the commonalities within our congregation. The feedback we receive will influence which groups we talk to next and how we will bring the congregation together. Along the way, the process will include parish-wide conversations to ensure that everyone has the opportunity to be heard. Remember, one of the great things about being an Episcopalian is we have room for disparate views! Eventually we will coalesce around a common vision that will drive our programming and overall mission of the church.

These conversations will also afford us the opportunity to re-think the use of our building to better align with who we are and who we want to be as a parish. We are already seeing the beginning of this process. To better align with modern views on childcare, including better air quality and natural light, our nursery has been moved upstairs, Godly Play has also been moved to the Upper Parish Hall, and people are starting to ask what the future use for the basement should be.

Coalescing around a common vision will take time. It obviously will not come to conclusion before we start a capital campaign later this year. But the conversations we have over the next few months should give us an overall direction to base the campaign on.

This is an exciting time to be part of this community. We are growing as a parish, exploring who we are, and we are changing as a result. By working together and engaging in dialogue to chart a common direction, we will ensure that our path forward reflects who we are and who we want to be as a parish. I am excited and honored to serve as one your wardens through this process. 

Darwin Keith-Lucas, Warden

 
 
 

Daylight Saving Time Begins: March 12

Please note that Daylight Saving Time begins at 2:00 am this Sunday, March 12. Remember to "spring forward" and set your clocks one hour ahead on Saturday night! 

 
 
 

Important Worship Note

In the coming weeks, especially on Palm Sunday, and during Holy Week, we use scripture readings that often refer to the opponents of Jesus and the disciples simply as “the Jews.” In the context of earliest Christianity, when it went without saying that Jesus and his closest followers were themselves Jews, the listener would know that what was meant by this language was simply, “those who opposed Jesus” or, more narrowly, the religious leaders. Due to Christianity’s history of antisemitism, and the continued specter of antisemitism in our world today, I have made the decision as the Rector of the parish, to have our scripture lessons substitute the language of “religious leaders” when what is stated might otherwise be interpreted as anti-Jewishness within our community.  

Rev. Nick Myers  

Bishops' Appeal Sunday: March 12

This Sunday, March 12, we invite you to give generously to the Bishops’ Annual Appeal. This diocesan-wide fundraising effort goes to support ministries that directly serve the needs of our communities in transformative ways. To give by credit card, go to www.diomass.org/bishops-appeal, or make your check payable to “Episcopal Diocese of Massachusetts,” with “Bishops’ Annual Appeal” in the memo line. We encourage you to explore all of our shared outreach ministries here and give as you are able during this special offering.

 
 

Youth Forum on Vocation and Discernment

This Sunday, March 12 from 11:15 am – 12:30 pm, all youth (grades 6-12) are invited to join our regular confirmation class time in the Garret for a forum on vocation and discernment. We will be joined by the Rev. Bethany Myers, a palliative care social worker and ordained deacon, and Peter Dickson, a law student who teaches classes inside prisons. They will share how one's professional identity aligns with one's Christian call (vocation) and help youth think about their own emerging sense of vocation.

 
 

Lenten Forum: Repentance:
Making Amends in Our World

This Sunday, March 12 at 11:30 am in Hadley Hall, Rev. Nick will lead a conversation on what it means for us to make amends in our relationships and why this seems so hard in our society. Exploring the work of Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg and the practice of teshuva (repentance), we will discuss steps towards healing and wholeness in ourselves, our relationships, and our world.

 
 

Upcoming Environmental Justice Event

Did you know your credit card or retirement account may be funding the fossil fuel industry? Many large banks and insurance companies fund and insure fossil fuel companies, and asset managers and pension fund managers often invest in them. This Sunday, March 12 at 4:00 pm, Epiphany parishioner Ingrid Geis and Alan Field of 350 Mass MetroNorth will offer "Stop & Steer the Money," a 20-minute online presentation with their suggestions on banking alternatives that can better reflect your values. Click here to participate via Zoom. 

 
 

Midweek @ Epiphany: March 15

Our next Midweek @ Epiphany is this Wednesday, March 15. Each Midweek begins at 6:15 pm with dinner and fellowship. Come and celebrate St. Patrick's Day with corned beef and roast vegetables. There will be something for everyone!

Following dinner, we'll continue our intergenerational Lenten Midweeks meditating on the sacrament of the Holy Eucharist. Around our tables, we'll work with bread dough as we learn more about the Lord's Supper. Join us this Wednesday as we continue our Lenten journey together! 

 
 

Thank You for Your Donations to the
Malden Warming Center!

A big thank you to everyone who donated to the clothing drive for the Malden Warming Center! Epiphany went above and beyond with plenty of warm coats, winter boots, and sweatshirts. Send a prayer this week for the new owners of these clothing items, that they might be warm both in body and spirit and that we might continue to learn how to better embody solidarity with all our neighbors. Thank you again!

~ Rev. Janelle

 

Virtual Alzheimer's Disease Bereavement Support Group for Men

Since 2021, there has been a collaboration between the Diocese of Massachusetts's Lifespan Ministry with Older Adults and the Alzheimer’s Association MA/NH Chapter to offer a weekly Alzheimer’s Disease weekly virtual support group for men. The amazing longevity of this program, which started out as an eight-week workshop, speaks to the deep need men traveling this difficult road have for both practical and emotional sharing with each other.

Some of our earliest subscribers have now run the full trajectory of this disease and are ready for bereavement support. Beginning on March 16, we will be adding a virtual men’s bereavement support group to run weekly on Thursday evenings. If you are interested in participating, or if you would help connecting with a women's or mixed-gender Alzheimer's support group, please contact Deacon Phil Flaherty

 
 

Lenten Quiet Day: March 18

Sign Up for Lenten Quiet Day

Next Saturday, March 18 from 9:00 am - 12:00 pm, join Br. Sean Glenn, a brother from the Society of St. John the Evangelist, who will lead us in a Lenten quiet day at Epiphany around the theme of finding strength and courage amidst the challenges of life. Create some space in yourself, in your day, and during the season of Lent to sense God's nearness.

 

St. Luke's Community Kitchen:
Reopening in March!

Great news for Epiphany parishioners and friends who are interested in volunteering at St. Luke’sSan Lucas Saturday Community Kitchen in Chelsea! After closing for three years due to the Covid-19 pandemic, the soup kitchen will reopen in March! Established in 2009, the Community Kitchen is a partnership between St. Luke’sSan Lucas and four congregations from the Mystic Valley Deanery, including Parish of the Epiphany. Epiphany volunteers can prepare, cook, and serve a hot breakfast or lunch to Chelsea residents on the third Saturday of every month, starting on Saturday, March 18.

To accommodate everyone’s busy schedules, volunteers can sign up to work the 8:00 am – 10:30 am shift or the 10:30 am – 1:00 pm shift. Please know that we welcome family members of all ages (recommended age of 8+). If interested, please click here to sign up. For more information, please contact Claudia Bell

 
 

Adult Forum: Lenten Series, March 19

Join Rev. Nick and our guest, Chris Sumner, on Sunday, March 19 after the 10:00 am service in Hadley Hall as we join together to discuss how our faith invites us into deeper community and kinship in our fractured world. Chris is the new Executive Director of St. Stephen’s Youth Programs (SSYP) and will share with us his vision, passion, and faithfulness to creating community and life in Christ’s name. Chris brings over 30 years’ experience leading youth development and faith-based organizations in the Boston area. Most recently, Chris served as Chief Operations Executive of The Salvation Army Ray & Joan Kroc Center and Executive Director of Operations with Jubilee Christian Church. 

 

Chris Sumner, Executive Director, SSYP

Introducing Locally Haiti:
Festive Reception, March 25 at 4PM 

 
 

Adult Forum: Lenten Series, March 26

Join Rev. Nick and our guest, Wynn Walent, on Sunday, March 26 after the 10:00 am service in Hadley Hall as we join together to discuss how our faith invites us into deeper community and kinship in our fractured world. Wynn is the Executive Director of Locally Haiti and will share with us a new and impactful vision for international partnerships in development in Haiti. Wynn first traveled to Haiti after the earthquake of 2010 to assist with relief efforts. He intended to stay for two months, but over the course of the next two and a half years, he lived and worked full-time in Haiti, developing a deep appreciation for the importance of Haitian leadership and self-determination. Be sure to attend the Locally Haiti reception at Epiphany on Saturday, March 25 at 4:00 pm to learn more about this incredible organization.

Wynn Walent, Executive Director, Locally Haiti

Youth Progressive Dinner: March 26

All youth (grades 6-12) are invited to a progressive dinner on March 26 from 5:00 – 8:00 pm. We will be going to three different parishioners’ homes around the area. Please RSVP to Rev. Janelle

 
 

Paola Andrea Caballero & Jacob Hiser
in Concert: March 26

On Sunday, March 26 at 5:00 pm, join violinist Paola Andrea Caballero and pianist Jacob Hiser for an intimate chamber music event with works by Brahms, Blanco, Oliva, Copland, and Gershwin. This event is free and open to the public. 

After spending over a decade performing in Barcelona, Paola Caballero is now Music Director of Symphonia at Phillips Exeter Academy, and is involved with the Lexington Chamber Music Center and the Boston Philharmonic Youth Orchestra. Jacob Hiser is currently on the faculties of both Phillips Exeter Academy and the University of Massachusetts Lowell, and also serves as the Premier Choir Accompanist for the Boston Children’s Chorus.

 
 

Help with Fellowship Hour

Sign Up to Help with Fellowship Hour

We are looking forward to fellowship hours on Sundays in February and March, and would greatly appreciate your help! Please click on the button above to contribute a baked good, a gluten-free snack, fresh fruit, or your help with serving and clean-up. 

 
 

This Week's Calendar

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Thursday, March 9

5:30pm Lenten Book Study Offered by Men's Group via Zoom 

6:30pm Lenten Book Study in Winchester 

7:30pm Parish Choir Rehearsal in the Upper Parish Hall 
9:00pm Compline via Zoom 


Sunday, March 12

2:00am Daylight Saving Time Begins
8:00am Holy Eucharist: Rite I in the Sanctuary
9:00am Fellowship Hour in Hadley Hall 
9:00am Bible Study in the Suter Room
9:00am Parish Choir Warm-up in the Sanctuary
9:45am Nursery Care Available (Ages 0-3) in the Dewart Room 
10:00am Holy Eucharist: Rite II in the Sanctuary and via YouTube 
10:00am Church School in the Upper Parish Hall and the Suter Room
11:15am Fellowship Hour in Hadley Hall (Sign up to help) 

11:15am Youth Forum on Discernment and Vocation in the Garret
11:15am Conversation with POE Moms of Youth in the Chapel 
11:30am: Lenten Forum: Repentance in Hadley Hall 

3:00pm Lenten Book Study in Melrose 
4:00pm Lenten Book Study in Winchester 


Monday, March 13

10:00am Lenten Book Study in Belmont
4:00pm Circle of Life via Zoom
6:00pm AA Meeting in Hadley Hall 
7:30pm Lenten Book Study via Zoom
7:30pm AA Meeting in Hadley Hall  


Tuesday, March 14

8:00am Holy Eucharist in the Chapel 
8:30am Bible Study in the Suter Room
10:00am Staff Meeting in the Suter Room 
6:30pm Lenten Book Study in Lexington 
7:00pm Stephen Ministries Meeting in the Chapel 
7:00pm Gifts and Memorials Committee Meeting in the Suter Room


Wednesday, March 15

11:00am Prayer and Communion Service at The Gables
1:00pm Lenten Book Study in the Suter Room
5:15pm Choristers Rehearsal in the Upper Parish Hall 

6:15pm Midweek @ Epiphany in Hadley Hall and the Cloister Garden
7:30pm Vestry Meeting in the Chapel 


Thursday, March 16

5:30pm Lenten Book Study Offered by Men's Group via Zoom 

6:30pm Lenten Book Study in Winchester 

7:30pm Parish Choir Rehearsal in the Upper Parish Hall 
9:00pm Compline via Zoom 

 

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