The Parish of the Epiphany

Family Newsletter
April 26 2020
The Third Sunday of Easter

Dear Epiphany Families,

I’ve shed a lot of tears this week. The surge. The Governor’s school announcement. These days are full of pain and loss.

Months ago, in the “before,” I wrote here about my fancy video doorbell, which mercilessly recorded our family efforts to get out the door on time. It involved me yelling a lot of “hurry!” and “I said now!” and “those are not pants!”

Today I opened that doorbell app for the first time in a while and as you might guess, these days our recordings are completely different. But they surprised me, especially given my tears this week. Do you know what I’m seeing?

I see us throwing open the door when we see a friend walk by, and yelling “hello!” and “I miss you!” and “We love you!”

I see friends making us chalk messages of hope, and I see us walking out with handfulls of chalk to do the same for them.

I see us calling “Thank you Doug!” to our UPS driver after he leaves us a package.

I see us having “art class” on the lawn.

I see us measuring sprouts and buds for “science.”

I see us laughing and laughing while we learn badminton as a family.

I see my spouse on a ladder retrieving the “birdies” from the gutter.

I see my friend dropping off some of her sour dough starter so we can all bake bread together-apart.

I see my huge smile when the toilet paper arrived!

In the day-to-day, moment-to-moment difficulty of this crisis I just didn't realize what was happening on my front lawn. These joys were hidden and now they're a long movie of little joys and kindnesses. (All is forgiven, blunt and truthful doorbell, for this gift.) I pray we all continue to seek and find these little moments of joy, laughter, rejoicing and thanksgiving. May we collect them in an album in our hearts and minds.

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice. God's joy is still ever-present.

Peace be with you, Bryn

bhollenbeck@3crowns.org

This Week's Pajama Church:

Sunday School

Hello children! Will you join me for virtual Sunday School? This week, we're baking together! Let's think about how important each little thing--and each person--is to the whole! 

Click here for our Sunday School video: Time for Cake!

Parents, you can find the whole recipe here. I suggest watching the video without trying to bake simultaneously, as the video goes too quickly. But it's an excellent cake to make afterwards!

Church Worship Service

Are you watching the live-stream worship service together with us on Sunday morning at 10am? I hope so--I love knowing that we worship together in spirit. Here are some materials YOU can use during the service:

Coloring Sheet: Because coloring helps me calm my body, listen, and worship. Older Children Sheet. Younger Children Sheet.

Word Find: Did you hear these words during our Scripture reading? 

Church Fellowship Coffee Hour on Zoom

Did you know that we gather together in "virtual Hadley Hall" after the Sunday worship service ends? We would LOVE to see families! Come drop in to say hello, or stay for a while!

This Week's Family Devotions:

Monday: During Sunday School, we learned about being the "salt and light" in the world. Try this dot-to-dot to remember! 

Tuesday: Trace your hand and write a prayer on each finger!

Wednesday: Pick someone from our Parish Directory and make a card for them, to let them know you're thinking about them while we are worshiping from home. If you need an idea for someone to send a card to, please ask Bryn for a suggestion.

Thursday: Print this puzzle template, and draw a picture of church or anything you'd like. Cut along the lines to turn your picture into a puzzle!  

Friday: Go outside with a piece of paper and colored pencils; find a tree and draw its many parts. How do those parts work together to make a strong tree?

Mission & Outreach

Saint Luke's - San Lucas Episcopal Church in Chelsea is a vibrant church, led by Father Edgar. It serves a diverse community, within the church itself and the greater community in Chelsea. It operates a Community Dining program, serving hot breakfast and lunch on Saturday mornings free of charge; a food pantry that has been serving an average of 800 individuals a month and a Thrift Store. It also hosts a Summer Youth Program (B-SAFE) and a Twelve Step Group (AA).

Parish of the Epiphany has been involved with St. Luke's since 2009 . Every Friday morning, a group of Epiphany folks stock shelves in the Food Pantry. On the 3rd Saturday of the month, Epiphany folk work in the kitchen at St Luke's, cooking and serving breakfast and lunch to the local people - as many as 100 have been served on any Saturday. Because of Covid 19, the kitchen is no longer open so volunteers have stepped up to assemble and donate bagged lunches to distribute outside the Saturday Food Pantry.

There is already a core group from Epiphany who are each providing 10 bagged lunches a week and we hope to increase that number of volunteers. The logistics of making the lunches may change in the next week but, for now, we would welcome additional help. The lunches are picked up early Saturday morning from volunteers' houses and delivered to the Food Pantry. They are then distributed when people come to collect their two emergency bags of food for the week.

For more information on how to volunteer to make bagged lunches, please contact Claudia Bell.

Did you know

Every Monday Parish of the Epiphany sends out a parish-wide newsletter, called The Three Crowns. You can find issues here

Local Support for Parenting Children Through This Crisis: Families and School

Friends, I write this while listening to Governor Baker’s school closure announcement and fielding texts from panicking and sad friends. Most of us saw this coming, and even with many of us agreeing with the prudence of the decision it is hard to hear and process. There is a lot of loss--classes, teachers, graduations, concerts, sports, proms. This is also a confirmation that so much more of this race is in front of us. 

In light of this, I pray you can be gentle with yourselves this week. What can you do for yourself? What self-care do you need? Here are some well-being resources to help you cope.

Dr. Rachel Kramer’s excellent webinars; she is a local clinical child psychologist and she covers everything from anxiety to dis-regulated emotions.

Meditation apps like Headspace and Stop, Breath and Think have materials for both adults and children.

Do you have suggestions to share with fellow parents? If so, please send them to me to distribute. 

Please excuse the type-os, and the chocolaty fingerprints.

3Crowns.org

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